PRO TIP: don’t EVER tell someone who has had plastic surgery that it doesn’t look like they have had any procedures/ or that you could never tell.
Even if your comment is being made with the best intentions, it can be rude and really fuck with the persons body image. When I tell people, because i feel comfy enough in my body & mind to be open, that I’ve been through 2 plastic surgeries/operations, I’m met with these comments that it looks like I haven’t done anything or there’s no difference or I don’t look it, etc.
It’s VERY hurtful. I don’t care if someone’s surgery means it ‘looks’ like theirs no change or their face can’t move or their new boobs aren’t proportioned right, you either keep your mouth shut or you realize that this person is making a big step being open and tell them they look fabulous.>>
ya just postin photos of fran and in honor of her birthday… we’re big ol nerds
made this quick ol vid of me singing passionately like kyle mclaughlin to cheer rip-homegirl up bc i like her and stuff and she needs good vibes and laughs